These are such valuable questions many would like to know the answer too.
For me i guess, it is how long and how much of your life are you prepared to wait and find out.
People don’t always change although we wish they would. They realize when it is lost. But is a lesson learnt. Bottom line is we make a choice to put up with it or move on. In my life this has been a major decision as it is for many.
Thank you for the encouragement & reminder that we all still have a choice..